What does labor feel like?
From the intense, cramping pull or squeeze of the dilating contractions to the profound stretching sensation as the babys head moves down the birth canal, labor is characterized by powerful feelings.
Some women describe the dilating contractions in terms of a more familiar sensation - a cramp, like a menstrual cramp; a charley horse; a gas pain; or a feeling of rectal pressure. One mother says her contractions were like strong gas pains, tremendous pressure around the pubic area. Another describes labor as huge waves, like diarrhea cramps, one after the other. Still another says, My labor felt like extraordinarily severe menstrual cramps with a lot of pressure on the rectum, like constant pressure to have a bowel movement.
Confronting the intensity of pain before you give birth may motivate you to learn ways of dealing with it more adequately when youre actually in labor. Fear is your greatest enemy in childbirth. Learning ways to deal with your concerns before labor will help with less anxiety during labor and birth.
Painless labor is possible but labor for most people has a level of pain for several very good reasons. For one, the cervix, completely insensitive to burning and cauterization, is nevertheless extremely sensitive to pressure and stretching - precisely what it undergoes during labor. Most women feel contractions as cramping sensations in the groin or back, though some experience more pain in their sides or thighs. As the contractions get longer, stronger, and closer together over the course of labor, they will be perceived as more or less painful by different women.
In addition, the uterine muscle - at term, the largest and strongest muscle in your body - may have to work at alternately contracting and relaxing for hour after hour. That can lead to a tired, achy feeling, just the way the voluntary muscles in your arms and legs might feel exhausted and sore after a difficult workout. The normal decrease in oxygen flow to the uterus as it contracts can add to that achy feeling.
During labor a lot of pressure may be exerted on the fallopian tubes, ovaries, and ligaments. The babys presenting part, which is usually the head, presses firmly against your bladder and bowel as he descends through your pelvis. This can lead to great pain, particularly if you dont empty your bladder frequently. About once an hour is a good rule to remember.
The rectum usually empties itself (natures diarrhea)
in early labor. The pressure of the babys head on surrounding nerves
will be surprising. This feels as though you are going to have a bowel
movement right now. To some women, that feeling of rectal pressure is
When you are in the pushing or second stage of labor, you will probably feel an extraordinary sensation of stretching in your vagina. I felt, said one mother, as if I would burst. Birth is a normal function of course, but its hardly an everyday feeling. When the babys head comes down to the vaginal opening, which may happen on the first push, but more commonly takes a half hour or more with a first baby, youll feel a sharp, burning sting as the perineum, which is the area between your vagina and anus, stretches to accommodate your babys head. In a couple of minutes, the incredible pressure of your babys head against the blood vessels and nerves will numb your vaginal opening until several minutes after the birth.
The pain of labor has frequently been likened to the ache and exhaustion of a marathon athletic event. Jacqueline Marcus is an experienced marathon runner as well as the mother of three children. Every time you run, you think youre never going to do it again, says Marcus, but when you finish, its wonderful!. You did that incredible thing. When you give birth, the experience of making a new life is a hundred times the experience of running, but theres still that same sense of accomplishment, relief that its over, and awe. With a marathon, you feel proud that youve taken your body through that run. With birth, not only have you taken your body through it, but youve got something to show for it. They are both such incredible physical and psychological feats. To be at the end of a marathon race - its ecstasy - and so is birth.
In marathon running (as in childbirth) the runner becomes tired, discouraged,
depleted, and ready to give up at some point. Runners call it the
wall, while childbirth educators call it transition.
In a marathon race, the wall comes about 20 miles into the 26-mile race.
Runners begin to feel queasy, dizzy, and light-headed, and as though they
cant go on with the race.
Just remember to take each contraction as it comes, but keep an overriding
focus on the finish line, the moment of birth. Soon youll be holding
that precious new life in your arms.
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